Today I want to rant about things that irritate highly sensitive person the most. Although highly sensitive people are considered calm and patient beings, still there are some triggers that they hide from people. Let’s know what those are:
Meaningless conversation irritate Highly Sensitive Person
Highly sensitive person don’t like it when people hold a conversation without holding any meaning or purpose in it. They feel drained when people have meaningless talks. HSP prefers to keep their mouth shut if they don’t have anything good to say. I mean honestly why waste your breath on things that don’t even hold importance?
Loud mouths
I sometimes do not understand the need for people to speak loudly even while having normal conversations. It thrills them but irritates highly sensitive person. I mean why let the people around you know about your plans? Why disturb them with your loudness?
Bright lights
Highly sensitive person don’t like bright lights, it triggers their sensitive minds into overdrive and if you are someone who keeps their phone’s brightness low then you might relate why.
People who don’t know boundaries
Have you ever met someone who is way too friendly than your liking or who thinks that they know what’s best for you or who loves to make decisions for you without asking you? I have encountered some of them and they infuriate me the most.
And the moment they walk into my space like they own it, my hackles are raised. Trespassing alert. For an HSP, their space is like their haven, where they can find solitude and feel at peace. It irritates HSP when any intruder arrives at their secret base to explore their things without their permission. I mean why would you do that?
Unplanned events
The next thing that irritates a highly sensitive person the most is unplanned events. Hsp likes to plan and organize their day as it brings their mind certainty. They don’t like unplanned events because they don’t like the pressure of not knowing. Their mind goes overdrive with things they have to do quickly to feel comfortable again.
Who forgets to shut the door
HSP gets irritated with people who forget to shut the door after them. And even more with those who shut it with such a light pull that door does not even move. Why bother with that even?
When they can’t decide
It irritates HSP when they can’t decide. They are really bad at decision making and when someone gives them the responsibility of decision-making, their inner perfectionist arises. Now they are going to measure every move with their perfect vision. This practice increases their irritation when their expectations are not met.
Competition
HSP does not understand the need for competition. They prefer to work in solitude and in the flow but when they sense competitive people around them, they get triggered. Their competitive spirit affects HSP’s sensitive energetic field and thus often distracts them from their path. HSP does not feel the need to boost themselves for the sake of competing with others. Honestly, how do you feel good after making someone feel less about themselves?
There are a lot of things that irritate highly sensitive person and they don’t even know the reason behind it. It’s like they are on autopilot. Comment down below and let me know what triggers you the most. I would love to hear from you.
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