If you’ve been having a hard time attracting love then chances are that you have some blocks. And one of the most common Love Blocks to attract love is when we look outside of ourselves.
If you’re looking for love outside then this means (energetically) you’re saying to the universe that you don’t have it. And as per the quantum law of physics, if you want to manifest anything, you must be in the stage of already having it.
In other words, to have something, you must be in the frequency of already having it.
Mirror Reflection
Our world is the reflection of our inner state but when we start to look outside of us. We try to manipulate reality as per our conditions, which doesn’t work. It’s like you’re standing in front of a mirror and trying to change your image in the mirror. When instead you can simply change your own expression by smiling at it which will result in a change in mirror reflection.
Reality is just like this. If you’re tired of your current reality and want to manifest something new then you’ve to let go of the old identity of you and become a NEW identity of you.
It doesn’t matter what it is that you want, this universe will provide for it. And if the thing that you want doesn’t exist then it will be created for you. But you have to feel worthy before you receive it. That is the main point of the manifestation process.
How to do it?
Become aware of your beliefs. Meditate regularly and become aware of your unconscious thoughts. Many times manifestations don’t work because our subconscious mind doesn’t believe that we can have that in our reality. We doubt the process. So it is important that we become aware of those limiting thoughts and beliefs.
Common Love Blocks: Limiting Beliefs
Let go of the old. Once you know what’s blocking your manifestation process, now you have to let go of the old version of you that feels unworthy to receive. Say you want to manifest a spiritual partner but you have a belief that spiritual men don’t exist. Firstly you need to change this old belief of yours into a new one. Observe yourself and whenever any limiting belief arises, change into a new one.
For example, old belief: Quality men don’t exist.
New belief: Quality men are everywhere, and I’m a magnet to them.
When we change our beliefs, it will be like shedding old skin and adapting to new one.
Common Love Blocks: Frequency of Lack
If you want to manifest money then you have to be in the frequency of abundance, if you want to get rid of your illness, you have to be in the frequency of perfect health or wholeness. Similarly, if you want to manifest love, you need to become love so that your world can reflect that love.
How to do so?
Start to appreciate the love that is already present in your life.
Make a gratitude list.
Try to do things that you loved to do in your childhood.
Forgive yourself and others. Know that we all are doing our best with what knowledge we have.
Bonus: If your mind denies the feeling of love toward someone because they did something to you, then I suggest you bring that pain into meditation and see that person from the eyes of Christ. See them in New light, in wholeness, and love. You can also shower Christ’s light over them in your visualization.
Remember what you seek in love you will eventually find in love. You cannot expect to find love while hating every other aspect of your life. Make an action plan. Recognize what you want in your relationship then start to feel those every single day without fail. Why? Because you deserve it. And if you’re finding it hard to do alone then I highly suggest you hire a coach that will guide you through the whole process. Rebecca Boatman is one of the most amazing relationship coaches I have ever encountered. She has helped hundreds of women find their dream partners using quantum physics in a fun way. So I definitely recommend that you check her 7-Day Frequency Challenge which is scheduled from April 1- 7.This is a FREE event. So definitely join and let love overflow in your life. ( Link).
Also Read:
How to manifest your Dream Partner into your life? – Livin Alchemy
Why do you attract emotionally unavailable partners? – Livin Alchemy