How you think and feel is a choice, it has nothing to do with what is happening in your environment or how people make you feel. It may seem like people have some control over us like they have some kind of power to control the way we think and feel. Now it becomes even more frustrating when people think it is their moral duty to show you the reality of things.
Reality is nothing but a sum total of what we think and believe. So when people tell us about reality, they aren’t telling us facts. What they’re telling is their view on life or how they think and perceive life.
Now if you’re an empath, you might feel drained of people’s view. You might get confused with what is right and wrong. You might not want to pursue what people want you to do. Why? Because you know deep down that’s not what life is about. There will be days when you rebel and days when you follow others. But at the end of the day when you sit with yourself and feel like resigning that is when you’re given a choice.
A choice to choose between what you want to think and feel or what people want you to think and feel. You don’t have a choice when you’re rebelling or listening to others. You choose only when you have nothing left to lose. It’s like when you become your priority and others just noise.
So what do you choose?
There’s nothing wrong in choosing others but everything wrong with denying yourself your own presence. We might go astray in choosing but we all know deep down when things feel right. Some might ask how you choose. Well, you choose when nothing else feels right and you want to just let go.
How to choose?
When we give up trying to change ourselves and accept how we think and feel right now, is the time when a portal opens. This portal contains possibilities. Possibilities that we denied when we were fighting reality and giving away our power to something outside of ourselves. When we resign ourselves to the present moment, we start to get our power back.
Accept the way you think and feel right now and from there, a possibility arises then you’re given a choice to choose how you want to think and feel. You can either choose a painful story or a peaceful one. No judgments will be there. You’re heard and seen and your wish will be fulfilled from there.
Transmute your energy
You can transmute anger into peace, hurt into love, or lack into abundance. It’s the same energy. Remember that you have this choice in the now only. You can choose how you want to think and feel now. But you don’t hold this power in the past and future. So choose your story now. Do you want to choose what they told you to believe or what you feel like?
What do you want? You don’t have to fight reality. You can let it be and from there choose what you want to feel. People say they want to be happy. Well then be happy what’s stopping you? Then they tell me about the things that make them unhappy. What they are really trying to say is that something outside of them has power over how they think and feel. You can be happy regardless of the situations or people in your life. It’s a conscious choice that we only make when we are connected or want to connect with the Supreme power. So, choose for yourself now.
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