There are various laws of attraction techniques to manifest love in our lives. Some like to use scripting, the two-cup method, the pillow method, or visualization. These techniques do work but to a certain level only. There’s a pretty high chance that you manifest love but not a desired partnership. Why does that happen? Why do you still ache to feel more love when you are already in a relationship? The answer is simple: you are expecting to find love outside of you instead of within you. You try to manifest in the hope that someone else will fill that empty void in your heart.
Manifest love consciously
The most important thing to manifest love is to understand that you cannot manifest love outside of you. You also cannot expect to love someone and hate the other. Many times we try to attract love so that we can run away from other areas of our lives. It doesn’t work that way. To attract a loving conscious partnership in your life, you have to bring love within you irrespective of what is happening in your environment.
You’ve to become love because if you do not find love within you, you will start to depend on your partner to feel whole, happy, and safe. Eventually, you might attract a partner from those low vibrational energies but continue to feel those emotions.
Your partner is not here to save you from anything, he is only here to remind you who you are. He is a mirror reflection of your inner state of being. You can either attract a conscious loving partner or an unconscious one depending on how you feel right now. So what is your inner state of being right now? Grab a pen and paper and ask yourself
- How do I feel right now?
- How will I feel when my partner comes?
You see there’s a huge gap between both the answers. Say you are feeling anxious right now and you will feel safe when your partner arrives. To manifest love we have to overcome that gap.
As per quantum law, there is no past or future so if you want to manifest something in your life you have to be that person here in the now. You have to become greater than yourself. You have to feel those desired emotions in this moment to attract them into your life. That means you have overcome the limiting emotions too. So how do you overcome this bridge?
Feel those emotions of safety, love, joy, and wholeness right now. Start to embrace the emotions of love and safety right now. Stay in your body and rejoice in life.
If your mind goes back to doubt, bring it to the present moment and remind yourself that you are a new person now. The person who loves and embraces every moment of her life. Keep reminding this new identity of yourself to your mind to the point that it becomes your new state of being.
Conscious love
Many times women don’t know what kind of partners they want to attract in their lives. So they go from one unfulfilling relationship to another.
Before you start manifesting, ask yourself
- What kind of person do I want to manifest?
- How would I feel with this powerful, amazing being?
- What kind of emotions do I want to embrace when I’m in this beautiful partnership?
When you are clear about what you want, start to embrace these emotions every single day like it is happening now. If fear creeps in, go within, calm your body down, and from there start to feel those desired emotions again.
Your body doesn’t know the difference between imagination and current reality. So when you embrace these emotions in the NOW you’re telling your body that your desired reality is happening now.
As per quantum law, you call in your desired potential reality in your life by just feeling those emotions and thinking those thoughts.
How to stay in the NOW?
When you stay in your body, it becomes easy to know what you’re feeling and why. Most of the time we stay in our heads and thus get carried away by one thought and another and all the while we keep avoiding our emotions.
When we avoid our emotions and continue to think, it’s a clear sign that we are not present in the moment. And when we are not present, we are either remembering the past or predicting the future. Both events distract you from your desired reality.
So, if you wish to come to the present moment and find it hard to do then simply ask yourself- how do I feel right now? Then stay in that emotion non-judgmentally.
Accept whatever comes in the present moment and from there let the light of your heart guide you. Gently allow your heart to start feeling those emotions. If counter thoughts come, let them stay there, love them as much as you would have loved your favorite chocolate. As I said before you cannot manifest love if you expect to love one thing and hate another.
Love is vibrationally present everywhere. It is upon us to match that frequency to attract it toward us. If love was a person do you think it would come to you when you hate or dislike every second thing in your life?
Now some might say I will start to love my life more or become grateful when I manifest this. I would highly suggest you do those things right now to accelerate the manifestation process. Start to embrace this moment in its wholeness to the point that you forget that you desire a partner because now you love your life so much that nothing outside of you can replace it. Keep doing this and no sooner you will manifest your conscious partner.
Also Read:
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